Manifest My Man

Day 7 out of 14 day of isolation with my man (I say 7 b/c yesterday post was really tuesday post, I just got to it late). Today we slept in for a loooong while today, we went straight to lunch which was light. Did our normal roll call with our family and his little guy who has been attending his mother home school academy (lol). It sucks cuz this weekend is the weekend that we would be spending time with “lil guy” so his mom agreed with my man in doing facetime with him until he falls asleep this weekend, just so we can act as if we are with him. I must say I love my man & his baby mother’s co-parenting relationship and believe it or not her and I have a pretty good relationship from the jump. I guess because we didn’t look at each other as a threat and it helped that their son fell in love with me and I fell in love with him to. I told my man that he’s little guy is not only his little guy but mine too. We have the best blended family and I can only hope and pray that it stays that way, not only am I blessed to have my man but I’m blessed to have out “little guy” too.

My man, I know we have yet met but I know that you are out there and when that day comes for us to meet, it’ll be a moment we both been waiting for.




 Yes I been neglecting my site & I know I’ve been saying things like, I’m gonna do better but truth be told, life gets in the way at times. I work 5 days a week and it’s a real 9 to 5 (literally). Around the time i get home all i want to do is take a shower and relax. But this coming year 2020 it’s gonna change and i mean that with everything in me. I’ll also have a new section on my blog that will be geared to manifestation (wait until you see what’t to come), i’m overly excited for it. I hope that you guys get inspired by it, but some of you might find it wired but will copy (lol).


 How did yall spend your Thanksgiving?  As for me & mines it was just my parents & I. But before getting into dinner, we had a little mishap. My dad was burning trash behind the shed, thought the fire was out little did he know it wasn’t just in a matter of minutes the shed was blowing up in flames. My dad & my uncle tried their hardest to put the fire out, didn’t succeed neither did the fire department when the arrived. Clothes, shoes, coats, jackets, arrangements for different holidays all burnt up (smh). Even though i’m a little bummed i’m just thankful to God that no one got hurt, material things can be replace family can’t. I hope that my dad take this as a learning lesson though, (don’t burn trash on a windy day) lol.




I’m Back!!!!!!

Brra ta ta tat

Guess back, it’s me yes it has been a while since my last post, did y’all miss me? I’m sorry that i have been neglecting my site but life happens and things get in the way of your passion at times. But i’m back i got a almost 2 weeks vacation from my job so i’ll be back post and motivating you as well as aspiring you, so look forward to  “Thoughtful Tuesday” tomorrow.


Saturday Vibe

Most Saturday mornings consist of brunch and mimosa’s & others consist of sleeping in and eating leftovers. This morning I did neither (lol), instead I got up around 9ish took a shower got dressed & headed to the nail salon, much needed fill-in, pedicure & eyebrows done. The works of a nail technician will have you looking and feeling like a brand new woman (lol). Later on today i’ll be dining with a couple close friends down by the water, summer is near and i’m ready to have some much needed fun.

It’s a new month what are some if your goals you plan to reach this month?


Sunday Funday

February 24th




The better you support and care for yourself, the better you will be at sustaining and enjoying the life you want to build.

Pace is a mighty tool.

As you end your fabulous weekend please take time out to do the following: Reset, Recharge & Release the things from the week before & prepare yourself for the new work week.



Grooving On A Saturday

Saturdayz are lazy dayz, it’s the day that you stay in bed late the most, it’s the day to do laundry and meet up with your girls mid day for brunch, it’s also the day that you binge watch the latest Netflix series. The day you try to get yourself together from the night before (hungover) what a night right? lol, saturday just might be my second favorite day of the week.

Saturday’s are the day you stay at home and dance around in your house butt naked and have no care in the world, i like to look at saturdays as days of reflecting of the previous week, the do’s the don’t’s, the what i should have said or done. Some of the things i do on a saturday morning is of course sleep in (lol) check my social media accounts, check emails. Then the usual shower, brush teeth, get dressed, eat breakfast and binge watch Netflix or lifetime.


Tell me what your satuday morning rituals.

You Put A Spell On Me

It’s funny how you don’t want to be in a continuing a situation but yet you find yourself in the same predicament yet again.

With that being said: 

In the early 2000’s i exchanged numbers with this guy, someone i knew from around town ( we live in a small town where everyone knows everybody and their business and your damn near related to them lol) anyway like i was saying. I exchanged numbers with this guy, at first it was just a textingship lol and it still kinda is, i mean we link up from time to time but it’s more a textingship. This has been going on for years like i said since mid 2000 but anyway, dude has a gf who he claims but doesn’t claim to this day (smh). This guy and I have been flirtatious for years through texting, and when we link up boy is it magical. 

Fast forward to the present time (yesterday) I sent him a friendly text just saying Hi nothing more nothing less considering the fact that I haven’t heard from him in a long while, the conversation was simply platonic, but then it slowly goes south in to the sexting mode which is ok being that I always get a rise out of then whenever we speak lol. Towards the end well I’ll say mid conversation he asks “you wanna be mine?” mind you as i stated he has a gf already, at one time back in the day i wanted to be his gf after finding out he was already not available/ available lol he had told me he couldn’t give me that simply cause he wasn’t ready aka already in a relationship. My answer to him was ” I thought that you weren’t ready for that. In return he gets upset and becomes standoffish which is ok with me because I thought that I was over him in a romantic kinda way but i’ll always crave him so to speak. He cast some type of spell on me that will always lure me to him regardless how long we go not speaking, regardless if his in a relationship with someone else or not.

Like a moth to a flame

Like a addict to the best cocaine i can’t seem to shake

Will it be a bad thing if i see him again?